We've done a fairly 180 and now we're hosting ourselves. Well do it at home but the patio is tiny (6x9ft give or take) there's also an elevated decking that will work as stage/buffet.
We don't expect more than 30 people to show up and even then would be at different times.
Our mothers and children can go upstairs if they feel bored/tired.
Cold buffet or BBQ? I'm hoping to get a tiki bar for the occasion but regardless there's be a lot of cocktails/bubbly.
What about decoration? We still have 10 months to plan so no rush. Tia!