I’m a size 10, he’s gone fitness freak mode.

[DreamALittleDreamofMe]

Hi all.

Don’t really know what I’m looking for, just suffering from huge anxiety as my partner won’t eat anything I make for him anymore, for example a lasagne or chicken wraps etc.

He will only eat chicken and rice and spends hours upstairs with his weight bench.

I feel so self conscious, he says if I’m not happy I should change myself but I was happy with myself before all this, I never anticipated having to keep up with a muscle man.

All this time weight training... what a great way of not having to do his share of housework and looking after DC whilst acting superior!

The OP only said he spends 'hours' weight training. She didn't mention at all whether that impacts upon the housework and parenting?

Oh dear. It appears that your DP has turned into a prick.

Let him do his own shopping and cook his own food. And pay no attention to the rubbish that comes out of his mouth. Insisting that if you are unhappy, then you have to change yourself? Bloody cheek. Basically he's saying that unless you do what he says and think what he tells you to think, then you are in the wrong. Fuck that for a game of soldiers.