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packet1997 · 24/03/2020 22:08

Please don’t judge or comment anything that’s negative or unnecessary.
So basically I split up with my partner for a while, I had sex with someone on the 1st of November, we used a condom however the condom broke. I bled on the 16th of November however I can’t quite remember how heavy the bleed was, however it lasted for about 4 days. I then got back with my ex partner because I love him, we had sex a lot around the time of November 25th- December 15th, I then got a faint positive on the 25th of December. I went for an early scan on the 7th of January and got told I was about 6 weeks however they couldn’t be too sure, on the 23rd of January I then got told I was 8.5 weeks which would have meant I ovulated a week late. I have since gone for a dating 12 week scan and they also said I ovulated late and gave me the same due date as my 8.5 week scan. I got told I fell pregnant around the 7th of December but I am just so scared. I know my partner is probably the dad, I’m just really worried and scared, can someone please help me and tell me what they think xx

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Unfortunate · 24/03/2020 23:00

I think it’s highly likely your partner is the father from what you’ve said here.

MadameJosephine · 24/03/2020 23:04

Your partner must be the father, the dating scan could not possibly be wrong by a whole month

Fantasiaa · 24/03/2020 23:08

You need to let your partner know there is some uncertainty/ that you slept with someone near the date of conception.
I’d also suggest a STI test.

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mamatobabybears · 24/03/2020 23:44

I’m not entirely sure but I don’t think spotting lasts 4 days - that’s a period length. Pretty sure I’ve read it’s a day or two max, I’m quite confident it’s your partner from what you’ve said.

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