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Miscarriage

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Tonia435 · 05/03/2020 15:01

Hi,
I just need some advice! My ex and I broke up a week ago! But before then he had been aware of some of health issues I.e bleeding for longer than I should have!
Today I found out I had a miscarriage and I didnt even know I was pregnant! Everyone is telling me I should let me ex know as its fair and only right but I do not know what to do? I'm still in shock and I'm finding it hard to process the information

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99problemsandthecatis1 · 05/03/2020 15:59

Sorry to hear this. Don't make any decisions right now. Personally I can't see the point of telling ex, it's your medical information.and there's nothing he can do - I think it would just cause confusion and pain at this point. But once you tell you can't untell.

Tonia435 · 05/03/2020 17:14

Hmm I see your point! It would have been his baby as well

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feelinguseless101 · 05/03/2020 17:35

It's entirely up to you but as it is no longer, I don't see the point of causing the upset.

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