Any advice please

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Been TTC for almost 3 years now. Husband had his tests done. I have had frequent bloods taken, ultrasounds, internal scans and a HSG test. My cycle can fluctuate between 28-31days. Had a very random 34 day cycle a while ago however this month i am currently 9 days late for my period (day 40 of cycle) i have taken 4 CB tests all negative. I have sore boobs that feel heavy and i have had a twinge low down on my right side. Had a doctors appointment today and explained the situation and he said it will just be a late period. Feel very fed up, was hoping he might have suggested a blood test too confirm. Has anyone else had a similar thing happen? Or any advice? Feel like its never gonna happen for us xx

I know what you are going through is horrible and heart breaking. I was there way back in the past. In your shoes I would be buying a pregnancy test (because I am impatient and would be in a confused mess some- where between hopeful and panic).
It took 7 years and 11 years but I do have 2 DCs. I did not have IVF, just happened.

It is heartbreaking and i know people say don’t think about it and just relax but its impossible to not think about it isn’t it. That’s amazing how it just happened after all those years . I have taken 4 tests in the past 10 days all negative x

Have faith and hope that it will happen one day either with IVF or just some weird way nature has of being inexplicable.
I think of all the times I worried about getting pregnant at the wrong time and the amount of pills I took to avoid pregnancy and I wonder how it all happened.

I don't have any idea of why it happened at those times or why it never happened again.
Wishing you all the very best to have your dream fulfilled

Thankyou xx