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Friend keeps looking at my OLD profile

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OnlineDatingWeirdness · 21/02/2020 17:39

I have signed up for a few OLD sites as trying to get back out there. All good so far.

A couple of the sites allow you to see who has viewed your profile. A friend has been looking at my profile on both these sites every day and find it a bit weird.

We're both female and straight, well I am. I have no idea how she found my profile on there and no idea why she keeps looking. We aren't really close friends, but occasionally will text and meet up for lunch.

Should I say something or not? Don't get me wrong it's not a major deal, I have no problem with anyone looking at my profile while I'm on there, but just find it a bit weird as it's two different sites and I quite clearly state I'm a woman looking for a man.

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SirVixofVixHall · 21/02/2020 17:41

Is she also trying to date online ? She might be looking for ideas on how to present her profile better ? Or can she see any traffic on your profile ? (I don’t know how these things work) In which case maybe she is feeling competitive ?

Connie222 · 21/02/2020 17:43

She’s probably just really nosey.

Dozer · 21/02/2020 17:44

Just nosey!

Ivysaurus · 21/02/2020 20:08

Is she interested in women? I think only profiles of the sex you are interested in will show up. Maybe she's interested in you but knows you're straight so won't say anything

Pollyputthepizzaon · 21/02/2020 20:09

Just nosey.

OhCaptain · 21/02/2020 20:09

She’s just being nosey I’d imagine!

Sagradafamiliar · 21/02/2020 20:12

I'd call her out for being nosey in a jokey way. It's quite extreme, though. Not least of all as she'd have to have registered as interested in women in order to view your profile (maybe she is).

Ineedanamechange79 · 21/02/2020 20:16

Might be looking for tips on her own profile?

Babyg1995 · 21/02/2020 20:20

I doubt she's looking for tips she's obviously just really nosey if it's bothering you block her.

PumpkinP · 24/02/2020 02:16

Just nosey? Really? Checking daily is more than nosey. It’s extremely weird! I would say something

namechange1041 · 24/02/2020 03:05

Super weird and nosey. You should ask her why?

JaneyGotAGun · 24/02/2020 07:17

Yeah, she's just being nosey stalking your profile.
Maybe edit it so the opening line says "Hi Joanne!" Or whatever

MsChatterbox · 24/02/2020 07:35

I periodically have a nose of people's social media. But every day is really obsessive. I couldn't not mention it if I was in your shoes. I would just say something like enjoying my profile? In a jokey way.

EmeraldShamrock · 24/02/2020 07:37

She is just nosey. Dsis is married not looking for a date, she constantly noses at other's profiles on SM and OLD.

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