Can anyone recommend a decent internet monitoring software that not only blocks stuff in real time, but alerts me if the kids try and access anything remotely iffy. On both their laptops and their (android) phones. DS has sn and is much younger than his chronological age, and DD (10) is of the opinion that my ban on tiktok/instagram/facebook/roblox/youtube e.t.c is highly unreasonable as 'alllllllllll my friends have it'. Fwiw dd doesnt have internet access unless she's got a reason to have it and it'll be over my cold, dead body before my 10 year old gets access to social media.
We've tried a free version but it was worse than useless and didn't have an override feature either which meant that I couldnt access half the stuff I needed to for my healthcare degree.