Hi, my daughter turned two in august she used to have one nap a day around lunchtime but this nap has started to get later and later into the day, to the point where she's wanting to nap around 3pm as soon as she finishes nursery until about 4:30, this is ruining her bedtimes, she doesn't sleep until about 11pm which is driving me crazy tbh i just want some time to relax.
I work 4 days a week on these days she goes to nursery and is picked up by either my mum or partner, if she doesn't have a nap all day she goes to bed no problems at 7pm, the last hour or two are difficult as she's tired and needs pretty much constant entertainment to keep her awake but i manage it on my days off so why can't anyone else? My mum try's and most of the time can manage it so no problems there but my partner just lets her sleep and it's making me really angry now.
I've just got back from work at 20 to 6 and they're both in bed asleep. Great. He thought it was funny until he saw my reaction and now is asking why i'm so mardy and doesn't seem to get that it's not normal for a TWO year old to be up until 11/12 like she has been the past 3 days and that i just want a good routine for her, i'm just venting really but does anyone have any idea how i can get him to see that it's really not fucking funny?