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My friend says i look down on her. AIBU?

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Killerqueen11 · 15/02/2020 15:04

Ok so my bestie is 45, a smoker, frequent drinker, hates water and doesn't exercise. She makes fun of me for exercising, drinking 2 litres of water a day and eating fairly healthy. She literally rolls her eyes at me. So now she's a bit off-ish because 2 weeks ago we had lunch and i asked 'how on earth can you say you're healthy and fit with your lifestyle?' . She told me to back the fuck off, and to stop looking down on her for smoking and not liking water.she also said that she's genetically very lucky. She hasn't really spoken to me since. So im just curious. Because I'd love to 'get away' with some of these things and still feel good. Ha ha. Could she be telling the truth or is her version of feeling healthy and fit just relative perhaps?

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MajesticWhine · 15/02/2020 19:31

I don't know why you would say "how on earth can you say you're healthy and fit with your lifestyle?" So without context, yes it sounds like YABU. You might be correct, but sounds like you are looking down on her.

Nomorepies · 15/02/2020 19:46

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TorkTorkBam · 15/02/2020 19:49

Is she always thin skinned? Or is it just on this one topic?

flipperdoda · 15/02/2020 19:49

Your comment was rude. Her rolling her eyes at your lifestyle is rude.

Either you both need to accept each other and not commebt, or the friendship has run its course really.

TheNoiseHurts · 15/02/2020 19:49

I would LOVE to hear her side of this......

saraclara · 15/02/2020 19:52

Her comments sound like good natured teasing.
Your comment to her was personal and judgy.

multiplemum3 · 15/02/2020 19:53

You've admitted yourself that you're preachy, maybe give it a rest?

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