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Little Things About Yourself That Annoy You

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Bunnylady54 · 13/02/2020 17:38

I come into the house still wearing my prescription sunglasses & realise that I have left my ordinary glasses in the car nearly every time. Drives me crackers! Particularly annoying as our parking is a little walk away from the house. I always aim to put my car keys in the exact same place so I can easily find them but hardly ever do & have to hunt for them. I nearly always let a cup of tea go cold. I shout at DD way too often, despite vowing to walk away & not let her push my buttons.

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Graphista · 14/02/2020 17:18

“I've actually started cooking more food to allow for losses.” 😂brilliant!

I’ve had more than my share of kitchen accidents too but my usual “trick” is burning/melting things - plastic utensils, colanders, sieves, teatowels...

You get the idea!

I’m down to my last colander at the moment, have no sieve and 1 teatowel!! Really need to stock up!

Blethering on at call handlers! And not even about why I called! I’ve been dealing with a complaint recently it’s ongoing and requires a lot of sorting, but I’ve ended up blethering to 2 call handlers today alone about Brexit, the price of groceries and the weather! I think it may be I’m feeling quite lonely at the moment I’m really struggling with mh, and I don’t mean to do it but I so rarely get to talk to someone that I seem to go overboard each time I have to make a call like this! I just hope I’m not getting them in bother!

I wish there was a call helpline JUST to blether because I’m sure some of you will suggest calling mh Helpline’s, which I do sometimes but I’m aware their resources are Ltd and I don’t necessarily WANT to talk about the mh stuff I just want some “company” 😪

@ringletsandtwiglets have you considered some assertiveness training/education? Very handy. I used to be a “pleaser” then I got a job that required assertiveness and training was provided it was life changing! There are loads of books and YouTube videos etc

DrMadelineMaxwell · 14/02/2020 19:16

I'm lazy. I bite my nails. I can be tidy and organised at work (classroom) but can't do it at home - mostly because I refuse to do all the work when DH isn't a tidy person.

Ragwort · 14/02/2020 20:49

I procrastinate a lot too, and am lazy. I seem to give a good impression of leading a busy, active life but in reality I spend hours on Mumsnet and just laying on the sofa Grin .... like now.

RickOShay · 14/02/2020 21:27

All I ever really want to do is be on my sofa with a cup of tea, my vape, my phone, my book and the cats.
It’s the goal of every single day Grin

exWifebeginsAgainat46 · 14/02/2020 21:48

@RickOShay

we are twins. this is literally all i do, with the same accoutrements (except coffee not tea).

lazycatladyhighfives

RickOShay · 15/02/2020 07:48

@exWifebeginsAgainat46
Sometimes I wish I wanted to do more, but I’m so happy! I do worry about it Grin

Pineappletree33 · 15/02/2020 08:51

Where do I begin?!
My main annoyance of myself is I overthink a lot and I live in the past.

BeBraveAndBeKind · 15/02/2020 09:15

@Graphista I used to work in a call centre and I loved getting calls like that. It broke the monotony of the day so you're performing a valuable service there. 😊

I'm really untidy at home and constantly apologising for the state of the house when people come round.

I've also go no self control and make really bad food choices. I almost made myself sick the other night with a combination of excessive fudge and red wine. I'm in my 40s ffs I should have more sense!

TenCornMaidens · 15/02/2020 09:52

I get bored of things so quickly. I am doing a brilliant part time course at the moment which I love, or should love, or love in theory, but I'm actually thinking 'meh, can't be arsed today'. I think I feel like I've already achieved something (when actually I haven't) so my motivation goes.

wapbapboo · 15/02/2020 10:03

Things that annoy me about myself in a lighthearted way...I wish I had more dainty feet. 80% of shoes I can discount immediately.

Bakedpotatoandgin · 15/02/2020 11:29

Graphista glad you find it amusing Grin

Zaphodsotherhead · 15/02/2020 13:53

Sooo much...

Procrastinate with things like banking. Then find that the things I need to do need two or three days notice and therefore because I've left it to the last minute, my payment will be late.

Talking too much, too fast. Although it's quite useful in my job, I literally CANNOT let there be a silence or a gap in conversation. Just SHUT UP Zaphod.

Pathologically early. Can't be on time to save my life and have wasted many hours sitting in the car trying not to be TOO early.

There is so much more... (also my constant use of elipses...)

WhatKatyDidNot · 15/02/2020 13:55

I'm too easily distracted and waste time on fripperies.

I watch too much bad telly.

Graphista · 15/02/2020 15:22

“I used to work in a call centre and I loved getting calls like that. It broke the monotony of the day so you're performing a valuable service there”

That’s a relief!

I did it again last night with online grocery order, the apps playing up again! But also Sainsburys have changed a cleaning product and it now comes in a 50% bigger size BUT this makes it quite unwieldy to use AND they’ve messed up with the trigger spray they bigger size means it isn’t working right. But I blethered on about online deliveries generally, how they were still better than others and the wild weather (she could hear the wind my end down the phone!)

40 mins I was on!

“Graphista glad you find it amusing”

Glad you took as intended. I’m also glad I’m not the only one that’s a disaster in the kitchen!

Past disasters include:

Far too many times discarding a drained food rather than the waste liquid.

Overdoing the spices in a chilli/curry and then ruining it altogether with rescue attempts

Massively over cooking meat (I’m veggie and rarely cook meat and I worry about food poisoning)

Dropping - utensils, food. Even whole pans!

Burning/scalding myself in really stupid ways! Eg one pancake day had FAR too much oil in the pan. Flipped the pancake and hot oil splashed on arm hand and...foot and lower leg! Quite a bit too! That resulted in a trip to a&e and a very nasty large blister on my foot and me having to wear flip flops for a week in a very cold feb!

“Talking too much, too fast. Although it's quite useful in my job, I literally CANNOT let there be a silence or a gap in conversation. Just SHUT UP Zaphod.” Same!

I suffer with anxiety and one symptom is talk talk talk talk talk!!

It’s reached a point where with certain people I have to deal with or rather who have to deal with me that to achieve what we need to they are allowed to tell me to shut up or get back on point!

My gp is great for this, doesn’t take my nonsense but is very kind at “redirecting” me, “graphista why are you here TODAY?” “Graphista I love chatting with you but let’s crack on” etc always with a big smile.

Punctuality- I’m an army brat so “10 mins early means you’re late” is how I was raised, I HATE being late, but yes I’ve been up to an hour early for things when I’ve not been sure where I’m going, how long it takes to get there, how good the parking is etc. Got told off by receptionist in gp surgery once for being too early! After that I’d still get there early but I’d stay in car listening to music or reading before going in “only” 10 mins early.

Wisheverydaywasfriday · 15/02/2020 20:51

My supernatural ability to gain an incredible amount of weight in a short space of time. I do low carbing and when I go off plan, I can put on a stone in under a week!! Blush

managedmis · 15/02/2020 21:13

I find it very difficult not to flirt.

sassafras123 · 15/02/2020 22:53

My crisp and red wine addiction.
Putting off boring admin till the last minute.
Bloody insomnia awake till 4 then get into a lovely sleep and end up getting up late.
Social anxiety .
Not speaking my mind enough at the right moment.

managedmis · 15/02/2020 22:57

I've also go no self control and make really bad food choices. I almost made myself sick the other night with a combination of excessive fudge and red wine^^

Sorry Grin

BadMoon · 15/02/2020 23:08

I am so socially anxious that I don't listen properly when people speak to me - which leads to people thinking poorly of me, which leads to more social anxiety etc.

Bakedpotatoandgin · 16/02/2020 08:22

Graphista ouch that burn sounds painful. Recently I got all the contents of the pan into the colander. However, I was holding it underneath thus pouring boiling water on my hand, jumping and flipping the colander with its contents everywhere anyway

Bubblemonkey · 16/02/2020 08:35

I have a serious love hate relationship with my stoma & the gym... there are days where going seems pointless because I feel like I’ll never have a decent belly 🤦🏼‍♀️

milliefiori · 16/02/2020 08:41

I chew my cuticles like a neurotic teenager. I can't stop because I don't know I'm doing it.

ArthurDentsSpaceTowel · 16/02/2020 08:45

That I'm unable to have a tidy organised house.

This. I can just about make it so my house has clear floors and wiped worktops (it's only taken me 30 years) but I cannot get rid of the little piles of assorted crap that litter the stairs, the corner of the kitchen table, my bedside. I have never got a handle on the floordrobe (currently residing at the bottom of my half of the wardrobe on top of the shoes) other than washing it regularly.

I cannot seem ever to manage a Masterful in Wizards Unite.

And for the love of God WHY does it take me a full 5 to 7 minutes to iron ONE damn shirt? Faster faster faster......

Nogodsnomasters · 16/02/2020 09:04

I ask too many questions. And I can see it annoys people but I just can't seem to help myself!

assilem92 · 16/02/2020 09:08

Eating chocolate even though I want to lose weight and will eat good otherwise. Being sad when I don't buy chocolate. It's a never ending cycle lol