I've been a jeans and sweatshirt woman for decades. Never wear skirts dresses or feminine clothes.
I'm bored with my clothes and have bought eg leggings and a tunic thing. Don't wear it.
Have you ever managed to at least widen the range of clothes you wear, if not actually radically change your "uniform" look? How did you do it?!
I'm losing weight huzzar and I think it's this which is making me feel perhaps I would like to wear more funky feminine cool clothes. But how do I deal with that reflection in the mirror that says "oooh this is not you, take it off at once"?