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VioletVoice · 25/01/2020 04:24

I just can't sleep, too much going on, which probably means I'll doze off tomorrow afternoon

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recall · 25/01/2020 04:24

Me

recall · 25/01/2020 04:26

My husband has assaulted my best friend earlier and I called the police, I’m now with her and she’s fallen asleep....and I can’t sleep

recall · 25/01/2020 04:26

And I had a big four hour kip this afternoon 🙄

recall · 25/01/2020 04:27

I’m not remotely tired

recall · 25/01/2020 04:27

What’s going on with you ? Or would you rather not say ?

VioletVoice · 25/01/2020 04:30

@recall actually it's a long story! At least friend is ok. Do you have to share a bed tonight?

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VioletVoice · 25/01/2020 04:32

Sorry I missed that your husband assaulted your best friend?

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Kingoftheroad · 25/01/2020 04:35

I have out of control heart burn - had a stressful day yesterday I can always get to sleep but find it difficult to stay asleep when I’m like this

wheretonow123 · 25/01/2020 04:35

Thats awful @recall.

How did it happen? Was there drink involved?

recall · 25/01/2020 04:48

No drink involved ....me and my friend went to the pub, but didn’t drink booze. Whilst I was there, my husband texted me “come up to see me when you get back we need to talk”

She dropped me off, and opened the car window to say hello to him, because he was waiting outside. He started verbally abusing her, spat in her face, threatened to acid her if ever she came here again. She got out of the car, to ask him WTF. And he pushed her really hard to the ground, she landed on her back and banged her head. I told her to get in the car and go, and called the police. Obviously there’s a back story.

Last year, my husband called me an ugly fat frigid cunt. Me and my friend have just both bought motorbikes. We were joking on whattsapp this morning that we will start pour own biker gang, and we would recruit new members but make them perform tasks. Then I said we can pretend to recruit new ones, just so we can reject them . And then she said .... yeah, get your husband to join and we’ll say no ! You are an “ugly fat frigid cunt”

I’d screen shot that conversation to show a mutual friend, whilst I was out he went onto my synced I pad and saw what she had written

recall · 25/01/2020 04:50

KINGOFTHEROAD, have you tried omprazole and or ranitidine ?

VioletVoice · 25/01/2020 04:50

Oh shit - you're both safe tonight? Has he left?

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VioletVoice · 25/01/2020 04:58

If she banged her head she might have a minor injury, watch out if she starts vomiting then A&E.

Is he still in the house? He sounds awful.

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OytheBumbler · 25/01/2020 05:01

Wow recall, he sounds a nasty piece of work. I hope you ride off on your bike into the sunset!

I'm up because the bastard dog is barking at shadows and the cat is taking up all my pillow.

Timetogiveupnow · 25/01/2020 05:04

I'm up because there's an issue at work I'm very stressed about. I am do fuck all on a Saturday morning at 4am and yet my brain hates me.

recall · 25/01/2020 05:22

Both safe, once the police left, I left him at our house and came to be with her at hers. I’m keeping an eye on her regarding the head injury 👍.

Thanks for your lovely replies, I knew that Mumsnet was the best place to come 😁

Witchend · 25/01/2020 05:27

I'm up too. Nothing as drastic as recall. Hope she's okay.

Ds is leaving at 6. 30am for a debating competition. He accidentally set his alarm for 3.30am rather than 5.30am, and woke both of us up.
Then dh arrived home from Street Pastors at 4.30am and woke me up.
I don't want to go back tosleep in case I oversleep.

VioletVoice · 25/01/2020 05:29

Try to get some rest, even if just for an hour.

But definitely watch out for her tomorrow to see if she's concussed. It's too late at the moment to go through but he really does sound horrible. Try a little bit of lie down

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recall · 25/01/2020 06:16

Dosed off then , had a strange nightmare

VioletVoice · 25/01/2020 06:33

Oh dear - can you get a hot drink? Is your husband normally this bad?

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recall · 25/01/2020 10:59

Sorry fell asleep Hmm
He has been abusive to me in the past.

Did you all fall asleep eventually ? Thank you for being there Flowers

VioletVoice · 25/01/2020 11:33

@recall I fell asleep too.

How are you and your friend today? You probably know you have to make a serious decision about husband

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recall · 25/01/2020 23:59

I’m fine, my friend is very upset still, she went to get checked out, and is now suffering from whiplash.

The marriage has been struggling for three years now, think this is it now ...I’ve had enough

VioletVoice · 26/01/2020 00:06

@recall I thought about you both today. It's definitely time to get out, lucky friend's injuries weren't too bad.

I might be up again tonight for same reason as last night :(

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