Who'll be my alibi?

[MyGhastIsFlabbered]

I'm so angry with ExH. Today we had to attend a meeting at school for DS1. Out of the blue he informs me that he had to wash the boys coats because they smelt of cat wee. Apparently I'm regularly sending the boys out stinking of wee and that's why DS1 is getting picked on.

I DO have a problem with my cat - she will pee on anything on the floor given half a chance which is why I'm hyper vigilant about making sure the boys clothes aren't on the floor.

And neither DC would put on anything that didn't smell right - they'd refuse point blank. And I'm pretty sure if they were turning up at school regularly stinking of piss the school would have had something to say about it.

We split up 5 years ago...what is the point of saying all this?

He says it to needle you. He knows it gets to you so he takes pleasure in pushing those buttons to wind you up.

After 5 years? It's pathetic. I genuinely thought we were getting to an amicable place where we could co-parent. Guess I was wrong

Has the cat got a uti? When mine had them he’d wee in the house but not show any other signs of infection.