DD getting married in a few months. Just them plus 2 witnesses in the town where they live. They will then have brunch with his family who live locally and afterwards travel down to DD's home town (3 hours away).
Plan then is to have dinner with DD's family (so DH, me, DD's siblings and partners, GM, possibly aunts & uncles).
The reason for two separate receptions is that DSIL to be is nervous about how his family will behave (alcohol problems).
We want this to be special for DD & DSIL but not too overwhelming.
Does this sound okay?