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Fallen pregnant early in new relationship

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Emma2503 · 18/01/2020 10:18

I’ve been with my OH for nearly 2 months and whilst we weren’t necessarily being “careful”, we didn’t expect to find out I’m pregnant so soon. I’m only 4 weeks so far so very early days but this is our first and I’m slightly freaked.
We feel this is right and this was in our future plan, I have no worries about being pregnant so soon because it just feels right with him. I’m more worried about telling friends, family and work due to how soon this has happened, my friends are a bit judgemental and I feel the pressure to convince them all that this is right for us both, we’re both over the moon!
I’m even more nervous about telling my best friend as I’m due to be her maid of honour 2 weeks after my projected due date.
Has anyone been in this situation? Or does anyone have any good ways to approach any of this?
Thanks in advance Smile

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Scarletoharaseyebrows · 18/01/2020 10:20

Yep! I was pregnant 6 weeks after DH and I met. Many, many years ago now. And we weren't young or naive, we just knew it would work and it did!

x2boys · 18/01/2020 10:25

I haven't but I did marry dh six months after meeting him ,people were shocked etc and asked if we were sure etc but 15 years on we are still together,I suppose the only thing that matters are if you are not sure oh want the baby? And if you do go for it there are no guarantees in any relationship.

Hannahlou3 · 19/01/2020 20:15

I was with my boyfriend 3 months when we found out I was pregnant and now we have a 2 year old and are getting married in October! All that matters is how you feel

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sugarplumfairy28 · 19/01/2020 20:33

DH and I were together for 3 months when I fell pregnant, but for us everything just happened really quickly, got to together in January went on holiday to the Caribbean in the May where he proposed, came back from holiday and found out I was pregnant (and it wasn't the resort food making me sick) Our DS is 11 tomorrow! and was born on our 1st anniversary, we got married after being together for 18 months.

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