I posted about my DM a while back because I thought she may have got my DS to feed my DD (3 months) some yogurt.
Well, today she has lost our trust. She took DS down to her mum's so I could sleep as I've not had much over the last 5 days or so. Great, all fine, reminded her his bedtime is 8pm etc, we'll see you later.
I get a phonecall at 7.25pm to let me know DS has just woken up and is now eating. Did I want him home, would we be getting him, or could he sleep over for the night? We said to let him eat and to bring him home, not a problem, he's just had 2 hours of sleep so going to bed a bit later won't matter. She sounds a bit put out but didn't think much of it.
It wasn't until I texted her after if my sister was bringing them home that she told me they were at her flat. That's when I got mad. Not only had she not told me that she was back at her place and not my nan's, but had anything happened, we wouldn't have known where he was. She had also hoped that we'd say he could sleep over, as we've told her he can't at hers due to H&S issues we have regarding her place (mess everywhere, she doesn't have space for him to sleep) so that's why she didn't tell us where they were.
I'm so angry. I thought we were getting somewhere but clearly she doesn't listen to us.
I just... yeah.