My mil is nearly 91, still lives in her own home. We asked what she would like for Christmas. ( Can't give presents as she hates flowers, chocolate or clothes)
She has always hated us spending money on her. She gives more than she receives.
She has asked us to buy potted meat and slab cake from M&s. Our GC have bought her Dove body wash, great grandchildren have dusted and polished her home,
then hoovered.
She is so pleased we have all done that.
When I read on here how some mil act I grateful for her.
Unfortunately she is going downhill, this might be her last Christmas.