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To think I'm too intolerant for a relationship

19 replies

SouthernFreeez · 24/12/2019 20:00

I fear i am Xmas Confused
Every relationship I've wanted to escape. I don't want to hear the ins and out of someone's life or be involved in another family. I find it too much like hard work

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Hefzi · 24/12/2019 20:19

I know I am Grin

But at least we're both self-aware, OP Xmas Grin

SouthernFreeez · 24/12/2019 20:20

It's just so difficult isnt it?

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crosser62 · 24/12/2019 20:26

Yeah.
I am but I’ve found someone to put up with my intolerance.
It’s turned out ok.

EmpressLesbianInChair · 24/12/2019 20:30

Oh, completely. But that’s one reason I love being single Xmas Grin

SouthernFreeez · 24/12/2019 20:30

i dont want to live with anyone again or share my space lol

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Roo2012 · 24/12/2019 20:40

I'm too intolerant to be in the (20 yr) relationship I'm in. If we ever split up, I'm never sharing anything with anyone ever again.

MrsTerryPratchett · 24/12/2019 20:41

My brother isn't built for relationships. At least he knows.

Waxonwaxoff0 · 24/12/2019 20:42

I'm exactly the same OP. I don't want to cater to someone else's emotional needs. I don't want to compromise on anything in my life. It's why I've chosen to be single.

SouthernFreeez · 24/12/2019 20:43

i tried to be but it was a disaster lol

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SouthernFreeez · 24/12/2019 20:43

i love spending time alone too

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Cobblersandhogwash · 24/12/2019 20:44

So don't have a relationship.

SouthernFreeez · 24/12/2019 20:46

i just wondered how common it was and it seems alot of people are like me

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EmpressLesbianInChair · 24/12/2019 20:47

We can all be happily single together Xmas GrinXmas GrinXmas Grin

KatherineJaneway · 24/12/2019 20:50

Lonely sometime though Xmas Sad

SouthernFreeez · 24/12/2019 20:52

I've been OLD and I can't be arsed meeting anyone so i cancelled it

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BigStripeyBastard · 24/12/2019 21:18

Another resolutely single person here. It's the way forward!

scattercushion17 · 24/12/2019 21:25

I think I have found my people!

SouthernFreeez · 24/12/2019 21:33

I'd love another child but i know any relationship would break down

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SpringIsSprung1 · 24/12/2019 21:49

It took me until I was 49/50 for it to eventually dawn on me that I didn't need to be with someone. Even more so, that I could eventually be comfortable and happy living my own life. So many years wasted.

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