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UnitedRoad · 24/12/2019 16:05

I saw a thread the other day (within the last two weeks) where someone wanted to become more extrovert, or make a better first impression, or something like that. People were recommending books that could help.

I only skim read it (thought I’d saved it to read properly when I had more time, but I haven’t), and can’t find it now, but my 21 yo daughter is very shy and awkward, and struggling to settle in at work. She seems to think people don’t like her because she hasn’t been to university, however I don’t think it’s that, more that she doesn’t come across as very friendly or chatty. She was badly bullied at school, and this is still affecting her now.

I wish I’d taken more notice of the thread at the time.

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UnitedRoad · 24/12/2019 18:30

Thank you @ChazsBrilliantAttitude it was a great read. I’m thinking that the one I saw was about changing your personality a bit?

I know it’s evil thinking your adult child needs to change but I do. She always thinks the worst of people, and thinks they’re looking down on her. I’m sure they’re not. I’m probably naive but I think mostly people want to get on with work colleagues. The two people she’s been crying about today - one is a supervisor who goes to university, and one is a boy with no experience who everyone likes although he’s thick (not my word) because he’s friendly to everyone. He must be fake apparently.

I just want her to be happier.

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ChazsBrilliantAttitude · 24/12/2019 18:33

Oh that sounds interesting

With your DD it does sound like a self esteem thing.

ChazsBrilliantAttitude · 24/12/2019 18:48

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/_chat/3773141-How-can-I-become-more-tolerant-of-other-people

Only other one I’ve found so far

ChazsBrilliantAttitude · 24/12/2019 19:06

Minty
That looks like a great thread

chergar · 24/12/2019 19:12

i have social anxiety and an interview tomorrow! I don't want to... www.mumsnet.com/Talk/_chat/3769733-i-have-social-anxiety-and-an-interview-tomorrow-I-dont-want-to-go-help

This one?

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