I am playing christmas card chicken with dh

[Deminism]

I told him that I am not writing the cards to his family this year (about five cards in total). I did give him a pack of cards, tell him to let me know if he needs addresses, and tell him the last posting date is Monday. I have reminded him twice.

It does matter to me if they do not get cards. But still I am not doing it. And still I know he has not done it. Sigh

Why are you worrying about this, it's up to him if he sends cards, if his family aren't happy that's on him

Dh has always done cards and gifts for his side of the family. (His parents rarely get birthday presents poor guys).
This year he is even doing all the gifts for the kids because he complains every Christmas and birthday about what I get them. (grinch).
I'm gonna have 2 disappointed kids this year but cest la vie. Although they are getting a Switch, so maybe not. (I wouldn't have got them one at age 3 and 5).