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Hobbies

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Thehagonthehill · 24/11/2019 00:12

I was asked the other day what my hobbies are.
I don't have any and never have.I like reading and gardening (in warmer weather) but no real interest in anything that could be labeled a hobby .
My DD has no hobbies either.Are we missing something or are there others out there who feel the same.

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soulrunner · 24/11/2019 00:46

I'd say both of those are hobbies. People dont think of reading as a hobby as there's a myth everyone does it, but actually, probably more people cycle than read more than 6 books a year.

Gardening definitely counts.

TheElfFellOffTheShelf · 24/11/2019 00:50

I have hobbies (knitting, sewing, photography and editing photos) but they're not all consuming. I do them when I can be bothered really. I'm fact, I suppose they're more pastimes than hobbies.

I don't think you're missing anything if you feel happy and fulfilled without them.

Thehagonthehill · 24/11/2019 08:53

I just felt a bit judged when I said I had no hobbies ,as if I was lacking something.They looked surprised.

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soulrunner · 24/11/2019 08:59

yeah but better to have no hobbies than have hobbies because you think you should have them. For a lot of people hobbies have just become another thing they feel they need to do to meet the minimum requirements for a ‘successful person’.

MrsPelligrinoPetrichor · 24/11/2019 10:17

Reading and gardening ARE hobbies.

Thehagonthehill · 25/11/2019 00:36

Reading is escapism.
What actually counts as a hobby?
I love gardening and growing stuff but not enough to clear the garden in this wet ,dreary weather .

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EBearhug · 25/11/2019 00:43

Aren't hobbies about escapism? Different ways to use your mind, or let it relax.

Elbowedout · 25/11/2019 00:47

I would class both reading and gardening as hobbies. I think a hobby is whatever you enjoy doing in your non working time, it doesn't have to involve belonging to a club, going to a class etc . Most hobbies are escapism really. They are what we do to brighten our lives and get away from the mundane for a while.

o0 · 25/11/2019 01:36

Reading and gardening are definitely hobbies. You dont need to be gardening every day of the year for it to be a hobby!

I say reading is one of my hobbies and I read 95% fanfic. Grin Still counts!

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