Looking for a dress for a winter wedding. I'm 40 and a size 20. I filtered by size and "wedding"... this is just one of the options I've discarded 
Lace & Beads Plus embellished bodice tiered tulle maxi dress in black https://www.asos.com/lace-beads-plus/lace-beads-plus-embellished-bodice-tiered-tulle-maxi-dress-in-black/prd/13459986?ctaref=productsharee_native
Am I the only one who is slightly terrified and perhaps in awe of anyone my size (or bigger) who is brave enough to wear this?!