Annoyed by DP

[Irritatedbythis]

We attended a gig last week and were having a great time, both enjoying the music and the atmosphere.
At one point in the show, the band got everyone to say 'hi' to the people around them. The group in front of us turned to us to say hello and hugged us. One of the women hugged DP and said 'are you enjoying it'? He replied, 'I am now', in a flirty/suggestive way, which displeased me because it made me feel as if he'd not been enjoying it up to that point, which I know wasn't the case.

Realistically I know he was just flirting but I feel a bit pissed off tbh.

That seems really jokey to be fair, think you need to let it go.

Yeah you're probably right, I just seem to be taking it personally for some bizarre reason!

Meh.. I'm very secure in my relationship and this would have hurt me too OP. I'd just have a quiet, calm word with him to let him know how it made you feel, and then drop it and move on. Then he knows to avoid doing that again :) Don't make it accusatory and don't go into it looking for a fight, just let it be informative.

Thanks. I did feel hurt by what he said, even though I know it was most likely a jokey response.

It does seem like it was a bit jokey. She hugged him, he made a jokey comment, you sat with a po face. There is insecure but this is ridiculous

Seriously so many things in life to still be pissed off at a week later, but this isn’t one of them......

Not insecure, more miffed that a throwaway comment spoilt an enjoyable evening but thanks for your response!