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What constitutes stalking?

8 replies

Candle1000 · 28/10/2019 22:34

My friends ex just won’t let go, he’s turned up unannounced when she was at the park with friends and their children, he’s driven round to her new house and parked outside ( she hadn’t told him her new address) , he’s just been to her house again and put an abusive letter through her door . She thought she had blocked him on all social media but he called her using WhatsApp, she hasn’t answered.
Does this count as stalking?

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Pavlova31 · 29/10/2019 01:44

I would call it that.Yes.

earsup · 29/10/2019 02:51

Definitely stalking. I experienced similar with a very needy and demanding friend. Blocked them so came to house etc. Sent a message telling them to stop. So far all good.

Seahorseshoe · 29/10/2019 04:11

Yes, I'd say so. If she gets worried, she should log a complaint with the non emergency police, or even email her local police station so there's a record of it. I'd definitely be telling him that she's going to get them involved, if he doesn't back off and leave her alone.

RebootYourEngine · 29/10/2019 04:11

Yes.

She needs to contact the police.

midsummabreak · 29/10/2019 04:20

Yes. Agree with pavlova31 earsup seahorseshoe and rebootyourengine
If she could also email the abusive letter to police , they can follow up

goalpie2 · 29/10/2019 04:56

It's stalking, she needs to call the police as this behaviour can escalate and get scary quickly.

Candle1000 · 29/10/2019 07:08

Thanks all , I told her it’s stalking and to get advice from 101 . I think she’s not sure because she knows him , I reckon the majority of stalkers are known to the victim though.

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goalpie2 · 29/10/2019 10:46

Please read, this is classic stalking behaviour.

www.womensaid.org.uk/information-support/what-is-domestic-abuse/stalking/

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