Just a quickie- if another parent last minute invited your child out with them and their family to an activity, what do you do about money? Do you offer to pay? insist they take the money? Or just ignore the subject and let them go off without mentioning it? I am so socially awkward! also have only got a few quid at home so would have to go out in the rain to get a tenner to offer them or it would be shrapnel and probably an insult! thanks!