We have been invited to our first birthday party since starting pre school, our boys are twins so I was thinking I'll get two smaller presents (one from each twin) to give their friend but then I thought would it be better to buy one bigger present from both of them?
My default is always to keep them as individual as I can (they hate when people call them the twins) so to get two smaller presents but i suppose their friend might rather one bigger present.
What would you expect when inviting twins to a party? Previously for close friends when we've been to their children's birthday parties we've just got them one bigger present from all of us knowing them well and knowing what they like.
I don't know this friend at all, or their parents to ask what they'd like.