Hi I really need some advice please as I don't know what steps to take or what to do. My DD is in reception and I was called today to say she had bitten two children and it was unprovoked doesn't sound like my daughter at all but I thought ok she will be punished when she's home and I apologised.
When I've got to the school now and asked what exactly happened the two teachers told me that they had tried to call her in and she refused to come in and ran up to two children and bit them both however one had a mark one did not and they had put it down to an attempted bite on the one who didn't have a mark, she was being supervised when this happened apparently, so I asked how she managed to bite kids if she was being supervised? and to do two kids it must of happened fast.
They then tell me this is was a random attack she gave no warning and she was given a detention and taken to the Y4 classroom to apologise. I then asked why are reception children allowed to be in the playground with all other years up to year 6. And was told they all play together at lunch. And that my daughter has possible issues 
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I told them her behaviour at home is fine and she's wearing a sticker saying she was good today and I have no concerns on her behaviour and neither did her childminder who has had her for the last 3 years.
Something didn't sound right but I thought ok she's done wrong took her tablet away and banned the tv, also told her teachers she's disclosed to me that someone is picking on her and they said that's nonsense.
About an hour after we got in my neighbour came up to see me and said had I heard about what happened with my DD at school as it was her DD who was supposedly bitten and is in Y4 by my DD.
I said yeah and told her she laughed and said that's not true at all, My DD was hiding behind a basketball thing after lunch by herself after all the classes had gone in, scared to come out and was laying on the floor, no teacher knew she was out there and she was spotted by this girl and another Y4 girl, they told my DD to come out and get up and she wouldn't as she was scared, the other girl tried to drag my DD out by the hand and my DD bit her to make her let go which I know is wrong.
They then went to find a teacher to say that my DD is hiding and won't come out when a teacher asked them what happened they said she's hiding and bit the girl when she tried to get her out, the other Y4 girl is my DDs friend and wasn't bit at all and said she didn't leave a mark on the other girl at all.
This has now been backed up by a lady who works there and see it but why did no one notice my DD hiding or recognise she was missing?
Why was she not noticed to be gone from her class? Why did they tell me she was being watched and randomly bit two kids when she wasn't and didn't do that at all?
I just don't understand now what to do as I don't feel my DD is safe there she keeps saying she doesn't want to go to school and then my DD was made to apologise in front of the class to the Y4 girl for biting her and given a detention.