I was married for 19 years but was together for 25 years, divorced last year.
Now he's moving to the USA to be with OW and I'm having a massive wobble about being totally on my own with two teenage girls.
My girls are amazing and we have a brilliant relationship but I can't help but think that he's abandoning us to fulfil his happiness.
I've got a new partner but he doesn't get why I'm upset about the whole situation.
I'd love to hear from others in a similar situation