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Trans men in Women's Refuges?

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instaglum · 08/10/2019 00:15

Are they allowed? I was reading another thread about trans women regarding this issue and was wondering what is the standpoint? I mean those who are XX, born female people, but live/represent themselves in a male role. I haven't seen anything about it ever having happened and was interested to see if anyone knew.

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Gingerkittykat · 08/10/2019 00:25

Yes, they would be welcomed into a women's refuge.

This is the shelter which has been vandalised and had threats over their refusal to accept trans women (ie XY people) and they are very clear they accept trans men (XX).

instaglum · 08/10/2019 00:37

Gingerkitty, thanks for that link. It's very interesting (if shocking and anger inducing) reading.

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Bezalelle · 08/10/2019 00:48

They are welcome because they are female.

Bloodybridget · 08/10/2019 00:53

Transwomen are female? How? It is not possible to change sex. Their gender identity is female: their sex is male.

testing987654321 · 08/10/2019 00:59

Reread it, is talking about trans men. Who are actually women.

Except the language is designed to confuse all of us.

instaglum · 08/10/2019 02:07

Yes, talking about XX female to male people.

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EileenAlanna · 08/10/2019 02:37

I wouldn't welcome "transmen" in a woman's refuge tbh. They are, of course, genetically female but the level of testosterone they take means their levels of aggression/violence mirror men's level, not women's. Surgically altered women on testosterone look far more convincing as men than men on estrogen trying to pass as women so it's back to the same problem of how to keep predatory/violent men out of women's spaces when any man could claim he's a "transman" & allowed in. 3rd spaces for all trans is what's needed.

Bloodybridget · 08/10/2019 05:32

Sorry, I am an idiot!

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