My son is 19. We live in the countryside and hes been very lucky to get an apprenticeship. But, hes sick alot, smokes, doesn't look after himself and sits on the dreaded console. How do I get through to him the importance of doing well at work and looking after himself or does he need to find this out himself?? and this will only happen when he gets poorly or gets sacked. Im want him to fulfill his life, but worried hes going down wrong path.