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Missing viagra

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Happygolucky555 · 15/09/2019 19:42

Hey there just need some advice. I've got 2 kids from my ex and he has none. Been together 4 years but noticed half s of viagra missing. I suspected him cheating before but he always denies it. I know it's bad but I look through his phone and there is nothing. He doesn't know I can get into it and he watches loads of porn but told me he doesn't use viagra for masturbation. He does lie about stuff so he could be lying about this but there is no evidence other than 2 halves of viagra gone. When I confronted him before he seemed very guilty but denied everything. I just don't know what to do. I want to say what I've found again but if I do he's going to go mad because if he isn't I'm being a nightmare. He watches live web cam stuff loads but can you also be live on his phone as I've not seen a web cam ever and he doesn't have a computer? That's the only thing he could be using it for I thought. Please help...

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ThePallidBustOfPallas · 15/09/2019 20:29

Help? Help with what?

Confused
eBooksAreBooks · 15/09/2019 20:34

interesting first post OP. Here's a biscuit to make up for the missing Viagra: Biscuit

BiologyIsntBigoted · 16/09/2019 00:11

Yes he can chat vans nasturbate with can girls from his phones camera.

The always lying about stuff and purchasing consent would be deal breakers for me but I know a lot of women don't mind men paying women for lap dances or camera stuff so it depends where your personal boundaries lie but the fact your snooping through his stuff suggests lack of trust.

It doesn't sound like a healthy relationship without the missing viagra to be honest.

Angelf1sh · 16/09/2019 05:22

Your options are:

  1. ignore it all and stop searching through his stuff.
  2. talk to him about your concerns.
  3. end it because the whole thing sounds like an unhealthy mess.

HTH.

Soola · 16/09/2019 08:10

One of the nails in my ex’s coffin was firstly the secret purchase of viagra which he never used with me but only when he pretended to have an overtime shift at work and was seeing his mistress.

I found them and tallied their depletion with the times he was away seeing her.

Your partner is most likely cheating on you.

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