Seriously I've just come here for rant about a so called mate whose just pissed me off AGAIN for not the first time. Name changers here
I think she's a fuckin free loader if I'm being honest.
Always after after free meal and very rarely puts her hand in her pocket. If I invite her round she brings nothing
Example. Always comes to my house and if I'm cooking obviously I'll feed her but there no offer to wash up or clean up after. I had a go about it to her once. Lunch was at 2 it took her until about 7pm to wash the plate because other people were offering to do it but I told them no she needs to do it. Why is she like this?
Another. Tonight. She's coming round and2 of our guy mates are coming I've cooked they're bringing drink and dessert. I messaged her to ask her to buy cheese. Her reply? I have cheese in my fridge. I'm contributing nothing to this evening! What a cunt! Nasty.
So I message back what a shot attitude to a group event you can't buy fuckin Parmesan?!
Her reply. I'm
Going on holiday tomorrow so I'm contributing nothing I've paid out too much already I've got so much to do I'm not staying long your lucky I'm coming. Rant over!
Wow fuckin don't come then twat!
I said that in but so many words. She said she's coming because she don't want to miss the fun 😒
More example. Her birthday and Christmas I get her small token gifts. My birthday and Christmas. NOTHING. Another friend of ours she buys her a cake does happy birthday gets her an amazing present!
Another one. She asked what i was cooking dinner I said blah blah she said eurgh I hate that I can't stand eggs like that. I said ok. Continued to make the food anyway then she was hovering. I dished up for me and my child and she says that looks nice. My kid says why aren't you eating? Before she could answer I said because she said it's disgusting she's going to order food. She was NOT impressed.
Am I a mug do you reckon?
We've been friends for nearly 30 years ffs why is like this ? Or am I the one in the wrong??
Gosh that feels better.