So the past year has been MANIC- we started building our house last August, in the meantime we've had a baby girl (born Feb) we also have DS age 3 and half yrs. DH is doing the build , running the site etc (he's a bricklayer by trade but will do pretty much anything on site) so this means he's spent A LOT of time working on the house, leaving me doing the lions share of childcare, housework, life admin, etc etc (we also LIVE in the house with the work going on so it's constant cleaning tidying keeping on top of things!) . It's been tough and lonely & I've had no time to myself at all. Anything I want to do I'm having to do with 2 kiddies in tow... I just want a day to myself whereby I can relax and not speak to another soul if I don't want to 😂- so DH has told me to book a spa day for myself (my preferred choice of activity which I love) , 2 x 60 minute treatments, use of all hotel facilities, and a lovely afternoon tea with 🥂 to finish off the day, I am absolutely BUZZING. Just to be able to sit and do NOTHING, and not talk to any one! DH said to take a friend but I literally can not think of anything worse 🤣🤣I just want to be free to do what I want without time restrictions, thinking of anyone else's needs etc- I'm ecstatic 😁😁 So I just had to share it with someone. As I'm not telling anyone in real life Cos I know one of my (lovely and dear) friends will offer to come along and I don't want them to ! Ha ha ha 😈