Just curious how much do you spend on each person for their birthday and Christmas? If you have them and buy for them how much do you spend on your DC, partner, parents, siblings, neices and nephews, cousins, aunts and uncles, inlaws and friends? Do you roughly match what adults spend on you?
For me i only have a 20 month old dc so currently spend 50 pounds or less (plan to spend more in the future) for birthdays and Christmas. Don't exchange presents with dh we just buy something for ourselves. Parents about 15 pounds each on them. Have no siblings. Don't exchange gifts with my aunts, uncles and cousins for birthdays and Christmas. For mil it's between 20-40. Step fil about 20. Fil and step mil about 10 each (because he is a tight git). For bil between 20-40 and 20 for his gf. Sil about 15 (used to be more but we got sick of the cheap tat she gets us). 15 on DH's gran. 10 on DH's aunt and cousin. We don't have exchange gifts with friends thankfully.