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Post-sex headache?

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TheJellyBabyMadeMeDoIt · 29/08/2019 11:12

I was going to name change but there are so many trolly pervs looking for sex stories I thought it best not to.

Last night after a longer than usual session with OH, I had the most awful headache. I lay down afterwards and thought "oh, bit of a headache" so took some paracetamol and within minutes I was sat on the end of the bed, cradling my head and wondering whether to call 999!* I've never felt pain like it. It was all over the top of my head and throbbing. I had to stay in one position for minor relief, any movement left me in agony. After 15 mins it subsided enough for me to lie down and I went to sleep. Have woken this morning and feel like I've got a hangover, dull headache.

Background : work has been stressful, tiny hot and unusually noisy office. Tues night into Monday morning had a nagging headache. Sorted with paracetamol. Weds is my last working day of the week so I had half a bottle of wine from 6pm to 9pm (glass with my tea and a couple of glasses watching TV) I wasn't drunk by any means. I also ate some Roses chocolates (about 6)

I feel a bit silly going to the doctors but I worry becsuse I've never had such a severe headache except *I suffered a brain aneurysm as a teenager. I have no memory of the pain so can't compare. This makes me a little neurotic and questioning my judgement re: do I need to see a doctor or is it just a migraine.

I realise you're not all medical professionals but wondered if anyone has :
A) experience of post sex headaches (I'm not after details of sex obvs!) - I darent Google as will end up diagnosing myself with a tumour or suchlike.

B) does it sound like a migraine?Stress plus having the wine and choc makes me wonder if the combination has triggered it .

C)paracetamol has taken the edge off it - any other OTC medication useful?

Thanks if you've got this far!

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hubbletelescope · 29/08/2019 15:12

I would go to see the GP with your history.

Flower777 · 29/08/2019 15:36

It definitely could be a migraine. Sounds like an utterly classic time to get one.

Also, with your history, definitely worth checking with the GP.

TheJellyBabyMadeMeDoIt · 29/08/2019 19:41

Thanks for your replies. I thought it was easing today but it's still not gone, so I will see gp tomorrow.

I'm trying not to panic as I know the likelihood is it's a migraine. Better to get checked out though, for peace of mind if nothing else.

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TwattingDog · 29/08/2019 19:47

Post sex headache, depending on the position of your head and neck, could be benign or serious. I'm a chronic migraineur, and the only time I've had a post sex head pain was postural related, and it was agony (and the beginning of months of shoulder problems!).

However, my concern is that this sounds like a "thunderclap" headache, which is something that requires medical attention urgently. Especially with your history.

Frankly, I'd head to A&E, but if you want to decide first, give 111 a call.

TheJellyBabyMadeMeDoIt · 29/08/2019 20:03

Thanks for your advice. I was on the verge last night of A&E

At the moment it's eased with paracetamol so I will go to GP first thing and get it investigated.

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StayInYourLaneBoy · 29/08/2019 20:46

I'd definitely see doctor, but an ex used to get agonising headaches after climax and he was diagnosed with cluster headaches

awishes · 29/08/2019 20:52

It's something I have had, I thought I was dying it was so painful, and a couple of friends have told me the same after particularly long "sessions". Hope this puts your mind at rest.

TheJellyBabyMadeMeDoIt · 29/08/2019 21:22

We don't normally have midweek "sessions" let alone an hour or more😂. (we don't live together and have 4 kids between us so we take it when we can get it, which isn't frequent! Tiny violin anyone!? )

Dr tomorrow but thanks for replies as am even hopeful it isn't something hideous.

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TwattingDog · 31/08/2019 11:43

How did you get on? @TheJellyBabyMadeMeDoIt

TheJellyBabyMadeMeDoIt · 01/09/2019 14:09

Couldn't get an appointment at all 😡 standard at our surgery. So I'm going to be calling again this week. Headache gone and have since had sex without any side effects so think it was a one off. Need to get blood pressure checked though and a once over to be on the safe side.

Thanks for asking x

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Maxsaidno · 01/09/2019 14:19

Sex headaches are a thing:
www.google.co.uk/amp/s/amp.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2019/jun/07/experience-i-was-hospitalised-with-a-sex-headache

A friend (male) was recently hospitalised following one. He’s absolutely fine now.

TheJellyBabyMadeMeDoIt · 06/09/2019 17:13

Just to update having finally seen the Dr, I have sinusitis! I'm on antibiotics and feeling sorry for myself.

Flowers Thanks for all the advice
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Ohyesiam · 06/09/2019 17:17

I remember post sex headaches from when I was young and enthusiastic! I think it was all the yelling I didShockBlush.

TheJellyBabyMadeMeDoIt · 06/09/2019 17:19

Ha, no yelling that night until the headache itself 😂

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