I asked my husband what we should get his father for Father's Day and he said, Why should you care, he's not your father? I never had a father in my life and I never got to meet him and he is now dead. He said the same thing when I asked him about Mother's Day. My family are always really welcoming and would never say something like that. His family didn't even bother telling me what to call them after we got married so it's always awkward when I say hello. We've been married for a year. I don't feel comfortable around his family.