Yes many men, really do see women as little more than stereotype and accoutrements. We're sexual or sexualised objects/ objects of ridicule, simultaneously. No more than a set of clothes and a stereotypical personality 'type'. Bitch. Ball breaker. Man eater. Frump. Man hater. Pick a personality type, and the costume that goes with it, and off you go, and there's no more to us.
This sad demonstrated really well when there was a man who had a drag persona on big brother. In his usual clothes he was a young gay man and the others got to know him. Then he got done up in his drag act, which involved the trappings (as most drag acts seem to) of 'sexy lady'. Big hair, short skirt, high heels. Makeup with big eyes massive lashes etc. He did a good job. The men were very very uncomfortable. Why? Because they had the signals in their head to say 'here is a sexy lady' but it was a man. It was a man that they knew who had put a dress on and some make up. They were confused by it. Why? Presumably because to a lot of men, the trappings are what says someone is female, someone is female and sexy...
This is a real problem for women if it's true but we've always suspected it, I think. Men do seem to overly judge women and girls based on what they wear and put them in a 'type' and then behave accordingly. She was wearing a short skirt! What did she expect. Etc.
Anyway I digress. Gay men are of course a subset of men, and not immune to misogyny.
Drag reflects the 2d characters that men believe women actually are. That women are a costume and a set of cookie cutter personalities.