Need advice on what to do with a man who I've caught jizz handed watching porn and is now paying to watch it off a website and apparently on a dating/social site. Never home and stays at his mates most weekends. Got kids together and we are about to move into our first house. Should I leave him or stay!? Hard after 4 years and he fathered all my kids and delivered one! What shall I do? Please advise! Also why can't he be happy with me am I that disgusting at a size 10 after kids?!