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Help me work out what this means

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mindreaderofdarkthoughts · 29/07/2019 01:13

Hey .

So I was talking to someone about a guy and they said ;

You know he thinks about you like the weather .

What the heck does that mean lol

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MrsMop7 · 29/07/2019 01:14

It means you are spending too much time thinking about a comment that meant nothing.

MonChatEstMagnifique · 29/07/2019 01:17

Weird....maybe he thinks you are unpredictable/changeable like the weather. Confused Are you? Lol

mindreaderofdarkthoughts · 29/07/2019 01:32

I've no idea I thought I was at least predictable lol.

And i think that comment was a little uncalled for . I like a guy, his friend told me that's what he said and then I don't know what it meant. I'm allowed to question it because it's not a normal comment to make

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avamiah · 29/07/2019 01:36

It’s a ridiculous comment but it means you can be “hot or cold “, maybe friendly or not friendly, happy or miserable.

MonChatEstMagnifique · 29/07/2019 01:37

I'm probably wrong then with the unpredictable thing so please don't think I actually know. I honestly wouldn't really understand if something like that was said about me.

Could you ask him or the friend? It could be something really nice.

MonChatEstMagnifique · 29/07/2019 01:40

Just thought....it could mean he thinks you are really hot so he fancies you.

mindreaderofdarkthoughts · 29/07/2019 01:40

Sorry @MonChatEstMagnifique the reply saying about the uncalled comment wasn't directed at you - hope you didn't take it that way ! :)

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MrsMop7 · 29/07/2019 01:41

Oh, was it directed at me?

I just meant don't be overthinking a throwaway comment that probably didn't mean very much.

Or maybe just ask the person who said it what they meant?

avamiah · 29/07/2019 01:42

Its just a comment and to be honest it’s not a bad comment as he could of said a lot worse things .
So don’t worry about it and forget it.

Lostromantic · 29/07/2019 01:43

Maybe just means he thinks about you a lot. We think about the weather all the time.

avamiah · 29/07/2019 01:52

OP ,
Surely you understand the comment ?
How old are you ?
The weather can be Unpredictable .
It can be nice one day then shit the next .
Ok

MrsMop7 · 29/07/2019 01:54

It wasn't the guy that said it though, so it's not even his opinion of OP. It's just someone else's opinion of the guys opinion.....

MonChatEstMagnifique · 29/07/2019 01:54

mindreaderofdarkthoughts

No, I guessed it was for another poster. Smile

avamiah · 29/07/2019 02:03

So what’s the point of this thread ?
If the guy didn’t say it ??

mindreaderofdarkthoughts · 29/07/2019 02:13

He did say it .

He told me that's what he said . And before asked him what on earth does that comment mean , he had to go back to work.

So I was on the street like eh? And wasn't sure how to interpret that .

It's a guy I like and I've been on a few dates and his friends exact words were ;

" he said " aw man , you know I think of her like you think about the weather "

But he didn't tell me any more of the Convo because he got called back into work , so I couldn't put it into context

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Tomasinaa · 29/07/2019 02:19

Just ask the mate next time you see him. Or better yet, ask the guy who said it

MrsMop7 · 29/07/2019 02:20

Sorry. I read the OP to mean the person you were talking to about the guy said it.

mindreaderofdarkthoughts · 29/07/2019 02:28

No worries.

It's all good.

I better just ask him next time I see him

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Bluesheep8 · 29/07/2019 08:00

If someone says something I don't understand, I ask them what they mean....

Bezalelle · 29/07/2019 08:08

I'd take it to mean that he thinks of you as he would think about the weather - casually, from time to time, nothing too deep.

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