Am I just insecure and jealous?

[Jishuwa]

And really petty to let this bother me?

I have a friend on Facebook that likes to pose a lot in very few clothes (vintage/pin-up/burlesque type) and also has a filthy mind and puts lots of rude memes on about sex and bodily fluids. None of this bothers me in the slightest. However, DP said that hes going to add her even though he has zero interest in the vintage scene and wouldn't know her if she passed him in the street and purely just wants to perv over her. He sees nothing wrong with this because it's not physical contact... he's 48 and she's early 30's if that's important although I don't think it should be.

He also said to me a few days ago he looks at other women and thinks to himself "My balls would look great on your chin".

Am I really out of touch to not like my DP saying stuff like this to me? And to not want to add someone on Facebook not much older than his daughter just to perv over her??

He sounds like a complete sleaze and my OH would be out on his arse.

My balls would look great on your chin

And they say romance is dead

He also said to me a few days ago he looks at other women and thinks to himself "My balls would look great on your chin".

Honestly? I wouldn't even be friends with a man who spoke this way about women, let alone in a sexual relationship with one!

Grotty, dirty and misogynistic. Never an attractive proposition.

Your OH is a disgusting pig. Do yourself a favour and get shot of this guy. You deserve someone decent.

Jesus. I think my vagina would seal shut forever if confronted by such a vile, disgusting misogynist.

Finding other women attractive, fine.

Balls on chin... as Lisbon said, Grotty, dirty and misogynistic

Please wise up and dump him.
Hopefully you’re not living with him!!

I would 100% LTB. ”My balls would look great on your chin".?!? Disgusting

Oh that's fucking disgusting.

If dp said anything of the sort to me, he would be gone

Awful!

Scary that people think like this let alone say it to their partner.

How are you still in a relationship with this specimen?! Is that what he thought of you when you met.. he picked you for your ball rest of a chin? Get rid!

You are jealous?

Fucking hell. Get some self respect. And get rid of this vile creature from your life.

Eugh he is horrible.
Very inappropriate and sees women as objects

Urgh! Get rid.

I have no problem with all guys together having banter and saying crude things or all women together and saying crude things but saying them to your partner is a bit odd.

You have two choices, either up your game and give as good as him - “Cor look at his bulge, wouldn’t mind going for a ride on that...!”

Or dump him.

Personally, I’d go with the second option.

He doesn't sound like a nice man or one I would even entertain having a conversation with nevermind a relationship.

How long have you been together? And he's only just saying things like this now? Leave.

🤢🤢

Good Lord what a revolting creature he sounds.

I would be a bit pissed off if my OH made it known he was adding girls that I'm friends with just to lust over they're photos. I'm not naive and I'm sure my OH does lust over photos of half dressed girls but I'm certainly not made to be aware of who etc. You're not insecure you just a very insensitive and disrespectful OH.

Jesus. I just sicked in my month.

Absolute fuckwit.

He's fucking disgusting and if you left him, I wouldn't blame you.