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Leavingthebeginning · 01/07/2019 06:32

I’ve been a civil servant for over 25 years. Moved into a new role four months ago with a new line manger who for various reasons has seriously triggered my anxiety. It’s been horrendous. She is aware, but has no idea or interest in helping me to manage this. I don’t enjoy the job and I think this would be the case regardless of shit manager.

I’m thinking of leaving and having a six month break before looking for something locally, my current commute is an hour and half each way which I could also do without.

Has anyone else ever done anything like this? Part of methinks I’d be mad to give up a well paid job with a decent pension, but I have never been this unhappy genuinely and life is too short to live in this kind of misery. I have enough savings to keep me alive for a year if I didn’t find something.

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Leavingthebeginning · 01/07/2019 11:06

Any advice?

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HolidayReads · 01/07/2019 11:10

You've said it yourself - life's too short. Move on.

PulpHorn · 01/07/2019 12:11

Agreed. I gave up a job with good pension/benefits for a happier role. I haven't looked back. Good luck

Leavingthebeginning · 01/07/2019 14:19

Thanks for replying. Glad to here that there was a positive outcome and you’re enjoying whatever you’re up to now.

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