Would you send DDs friend home?

[ZorbeeAndTheLemur]

DD (14) has got a friend sleeping over tonight. They are going out shortly to meet some other friends for a couple of hours.

However since they got home from school DD has been so rude and obnoxious to me. I ordered them a pizza for tea as per DDs request and she was even rude once that had arrived. I've told her several times to stop being rude but she is still being awful.

How would you deal with this? I'm on the verge of taking her friend home and grounding DD for the weekend.

Take aside? No, if she is being a madam in front of her friends you put it right in front of her friends. Tell her she doesn't get away with speaking to you like that just because her friends are there, quit it or her friend will be asked to leave, then follow through and tell friend exactly why they are being asked to leave.

I think if you have already advised of the consequences and she has continued with that behaviour.... You have to follow through.