LOVED this show.
Love how it was basically Carter going from newly qualified to being a mentor himself.
Carter and bentons relationship was extremely well written.
But one of the most amazing performances in the whole show was by an actor who only appeared in a few episodes - the sublime and much missed Glenne Headly.
Her characters humbling of Peter Benton while being a compassionate paediatric surgeon was incredible!
Other than her favourite characters:
Doug & carol (of course - but they should have killed him off when clooney left because it's bollocks Doug would have left carol when pregnant with his kids or that carol wouldn't have gone with him. Just didn't make sense for the characters)
Mark - heartbreaking watching him die
Carter - loved watching him mature and face demons despite his privileged background (I think there's a line in the pilot something like "I think that's the first tailored white coat I've ever seen" said by Mark? And yes heartbreaking losing his child.
Jeanie Boulet - major HIV+ storyline with Kerry being portrayed as the bad guy but really she was in a very difficult position. I also still remember the conversation Jeanie had with her husband after learning he'd given her the virus due to his infidelity
"we didn't have that kind of marriage, did we, Al. We didn't love, we didn't cherish, we didn't respect, and now you've killed me!"
"I feel much more as I get older for the characters trying to be responsible, sensible and do the right thing but get jeered at by others for being square, rather than the rebels against the system like Doug." So true. We might fantasise about being like Doug, like when he kicked the child batterer, but really he was immature and lacked impulse control and didn't always act in the best interests of patients if his self righteousness got the better of him.
That said the storm drain episode was an incredibly filmic high quality piece of television.
Lucy and Carters stabbing was so shocking and heartbreaking. I think as viewers we forget that it used to be really quite rare for main characters to be suddenly killed off, also that we didn't have preparation in the way of spoilers and knowing certain actors are leaving a show months before the character leaves, I think it was better that way and while I try and avoid spoilers as much as possible I don't always manage it.
"They did a lot with mental health and were ahead of their time" they really did, though I felt sally field was lazy casting in that respect. Would have had more impact and been more surprising if they'd cast an actor who usually played more calm, sombre roles. Sally is relatively well known for "kooky" roles and has played mentally ill characters quite famously prior to the ER role.
Loved Susan too. Really didn't want her to leave but I know the actress struggles with the negative aspects of being famous.
There was LOTS of social commentary - not really surprising when you consider the writer and producers.
Comparisons to greys I can't comment on as I've only seen 1 season of greys so far, for me it was more like an American version of "casualty" but early casualty before it got silly and soapy when the makers still cared about social commentary.