I work as a cleaner in a bar. I can't start work until the place opens, so I'm often cleaning around our early customers.
I've noticed that if I'm in cleaning the mens toilets, and a male walks in, some (not all by any means, most will apologise and use the disabled loo instead), will say something like "oh you work away love" and proceed to use the urinal. Now it would be bad enough if they used one of the stalls while I was in there, but usually these blokes are intent on using the urinal as usual, and have unzipped themselves before I even have a chance to reply (at which point I run out).
I'd put this down to some men having no shame/ just not caring who sees them have a slash.
Today, I noticed a bloke standing in the hallway outside the loo's, reading stuff on the noticeboard. As I was going through the loo doors, I glanced back only to see the guy looking around to see where I'd went, clock where I was going only to start following behind me. He didn't notice me noticing this as I'd seen it out of the corner of my eye. I get in there, he comes in behind me, and it's the usual "it's okay love just you work away" and stood by the urinal and started unzipping. It really felt like he followed me in there? He seemed to have no interest in using the urinal before then, only when he'd noticed I was going in there? He had time to call out "wait!" but didn't. He could have used the disabled toilet next door, knowing I'd just went into the mens, but didn't.
Now I can't help but wonder how many guys that have done this before, have been opportunistic? I normally put a sign outside the door to warn guys I'm in there, now I'm wondering are some of these blokes waiting until I'm in there, so they can chance getting their bits out in front of me or where I might see?
Would some men get a kick out of me seeing them piss/the chance to hold their dicks while they look at me?? I tried to google this issue, and it brought up some links to porn sights, of people flashing cleaners in hotels etc. Is this a thing?
Hoping I'll be told I'm overthinking this and it's just a lack of inhibitions (fuelled by alcohol), but I can't help but think now some of these guys at least, are bloody perverts?