I recently applied for a new job which was partly due to uncertainty in my current job. I have now been offered the new job but some of the uncertainty in my current one has now gone, I've been there a long time and the new job is not really offering me anything different (same pay and hours) but will be a more difficult commute. On reflection, I want to stay where I am. How on earth do I politely decline the offer? It is worded very much as if they are assuming I will take it and I'm struggling with how to say no without looking ungrateful (it's a limited industry and I don't want my reputation to suffer!)