How long til I really fit in?

[ObvsItsNotMe]

Disclaimer: I have CPTSD and anxiety issues so these may be clouding my thoughts.

How long did it take you to REALLY fit in at a new job?

It's been 3 months for me. Sometimes I feel like I might, but often I feel that I don't. Is it early days yet do you think?

I always find it easier every time a new person joins after me.

Still not 100% sure all the time, but that's anxiety for you.

I’m the wrong person to answer really but 15 years in and I still don’t really fit it. Everyone’s very academic, I feel like a bit of a pleb. I love the job through and I’m not there to make friends.

3 months is very early days.

That may be my problem: wanting everyone to like me and be my friend.