Hairwashing

[Sadnanna]

4 yr old all of a sudden refuses to wash hair or wash but will play in a bath....if I go near her she's hysterical, dangerous behaviour In the bath and can be very aggressive...has had 2 baths and a wash down but no hair wash for 3 weeks..... any ideas...I've tried sponging...cup...have got a foam visor which she's watched me use on her 2 yr old brother and he loves it..

Mines the same (and 2yr old starting to copy). I don't worry about shampoo and try and take them swimming once a week - they'll shower after and rinse hair. Haven't used shampoo on the 4yr old in about a year and hair doesn't look greasy or smell.

She won't go near a swimming pool ...that's where I think our problem started