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DP qualities - what's important - quick poll??

34 replies

pivotagain · 04/05/2019 23:07

  1. Same wavelength
  2. Very funny
  3. Generous
  4. Good sex
  5. Gives up other stuff to put you first.

What really matters? Top 2 please?

OP posts:
PutOnYourDamnSocks · 04/05/2019 23:10

Competence
Kindness

Casmama · 04/05/2019 23:11
  1. Supportive - gives a shit about what is going on in your life and genuinely sympathises with the bad stuff and celebrates the good stuff - a true partner.
  2. Easy going - not petty, or moody or jealous or controlling
sourdoh · 04/05/2019 23:12

Kindness
Joie de vivre

RosamundDarnley · 04/05/2019 23:14

Supportive
Kind

AnneLovesGilbert · 04/05/2019 23:14

How he smells
His tomato sauce

FiremanKing · 04/05/2019 23:15

Loyal
Affectionate

Ihatemyseleffordoingthis · 04/05/2019 23:16

Tall funny clever kind

Ihatemyseleffordoingthis · 04/05/2019 23:17

sorry . top two: clever and kind

examtastic · 04/05/2019 23:18

Kindness and same wavelength

Still18atheart · 04/05/2019 23:19

There for you - especially when it matters

Takes your opinion seriously

Boohootoyootoo · 04/05/2019 23:29

Someone who doesn't ask strangers on the internet for advice Grin

Isth · 04/05/2019 23:30

Kindness
Similar goals

MorrisZapp · 04/05/2019 23:30

Tall
Kind

WhoKnewBeefStew · 04/05/2019 23:31

Kind
Fair
Intelligent
Interesting
Funny
Social
Good sex

LunaTheCat · 04/05/2019 23:32

Kindness
Good sense humour
Thoughtful and caring
Financially responsible
Understands his own emotions

Starlight39 · 04/05/2019 23:33
  1. Same wavelength and 3. Generous for me. If he has those then 4 and 5 are likely!!
PaperHead · 04/05/2019 23:34
  1. Intelligent. 2. Articulate. 2. Kind.
BogglesGoggles · 04/05/2019 23:36
  1. Intellect
  2. Good/moral/kind
Sn0tnose · 04/05/2019 23:38

Kind & funny.

senua · 04/05/2019 23:38

What's the urgency for a "quick poll"?Confused Are you on a deadline for an article?

windysocks · 04/05/2019 23:40

35214

MollyHuaCha · 04/05/2019 23:42
  1. Intelligent & interesting
  2. Generous (in time, thoughts, material things)
Original poster
pivotagain · 04/05/2019 23:45

senua err no!

OP posts:
joebtfsplks · 04/05/2019 23:49

Yes your list but also intelligence. Very important to me

Cooroo · 04/05/2019 23:52

Sane. A mate.

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