Meet the Other Phone. Protection built in.

Meet the Other Phone.
Protection built in.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

Chat

Join the discussion and chat with other Mumsnetters about everyday life, relationships and parenting.

Help me find my assertiveness

0 replies

ThePants999 · 25/04/2019 21:18

Just got quotes from some tradesmen for a job. "A" came round to quote and spent an hour and a half poking round, testing things out, considering all sorts of possibilities. Some of what he did was the sort of investigative work you'd expect to pay for, and I tried to pay him for it, but he insisted he'd do it at risk and just asked that I bear it in mind when the time came to award the job. "B" came round to quote and immediately identified exactly the solution that A settled on, and was in and out in 5 minutes. A's quote is 50% higher than B's, and I have no reason to think that A would do a better job - they both come recommended, and I think that B is simply faster. I really should pick B, but I can't bring myself to let someone down who did me a favour, even though that favour wasn't worth the difference I'd pay. Help me find the strength and the words!

OP posts:
New posts on this thread. Refresh page
Swipe left for the next trending thread