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19 and Pregnant but who is my baby’s father??

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Bmthleahx · 12/04/2019 16:12

Hi everyone 😊I’m in a difficult situation, currently I’m 36+5 weeks pregnant according to the ultrasound but my LMP began 3rd July -9th July but then again on the 30th and 31st July (just for 2 days) I had bled lightly when my periods are usually heavy :( so here’s the situation. I had unprotected sex with my ex boyfriend on (29th and 30th July) then I had been forced into sex by someone else who was supposed to be a friend on the 9th August on a night out (he wouldn’t take no as an answer and I said no over 7 times otherwise he’d get angry ). My ex boyfriend knows I’m pregnant and would be supportive if the child is his but the 9th August guy has lied about everything , even his age and name. How accurate are ultrasounds to predict the due date? And who is more likely the father?🙁

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SoHotADragonRetired · 12/04/2019 16:17

If you were dated around 12 weeks an ultrasound is accurate + or - 7 days.

If you are currently 36-37 weeks then your pregnancy is counted from your period at the end of July and you conceived in early to mid August.

I'm afraid that on the dates you give your baby was conceived during the assault.

Topbiscuit · 12/04/2019 16:20

Impossible to be 100% but if you’re 36+5 by scan today, that fits with last period approx 29th July and conception date of 12th August. That seems to point more towards The other guy (not your ex) Sorry.

The ultrasound is accurate to within about week if done early in pregnancy (12/40) but much less accurate if done for the first time later than 20/40.

MissPhonic · 12/04/2019 16:40

Gosh, what a horrible situation. Have you spoken to anyone about what happened? Sorry can't answer about dates but just wanted to make sure that you have some support following this. Did you report it to the police? Can totally understand if you didn't feel that you could at the time.

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HappyMisfit · 28/04/2019 13:09

I’m sorry this happened to you! It does sound like baby is your “friend” Please report this to the police, stop this guy from assaulting anyone else :(

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